My parents tell me all the time this issue comes up, “No sex until you married!!” Well I agree with that as a young Christian. But I have never gotten the chance to ask them about kissing while dating. I guess I would say if put to the test, “So what about kissing?”, and being [...]
“Go ahead Sir, here is your condom…enjoy.”
It is funny how the issue of providing prisoners with condoms has died down or become dormant for a while, until human rights activists and other pressure groups realize the potency of the consequences or when the nation is slapped with an increase in sexual offences. I promise not to be long on this but will just point out a few thoughts on the issue.
This superb idea of issuing condoms to inmates will push further the door of buggery and indecent sexual assault in the prison facilities. This would be more than a passport to engage in deviant sexual behaviour. Also, this would take away the rigidity of the prison system as some men only need sexual penetration for their lives to be considered normal, and hence would nullify the purpose of being placed behind bars, which is to deprive him of the privileges he had in society. Even though condoms would not cover much, government should take an active role in enforcing the rigidity of the penal system. If the justice system clamps down on buggery in society, then the same should be done in the prisons. After all, another aim of imprisonment is to rehabilitate, that is, to possibly socialize the inmate, to prepare him again for the outside world where buggery is not only immoral but a criminal offence.
One common desire for married couples is to have a dynamic sex life. Dynamic sex is sex that is changing for the better, which involves the participation of both partners. The media portrays sex to be very rewarding, good and possibly makes viewers want to engage in this activity. An important question asked by many age old couples is this, ‘Can a poor sexual relationship be cured by effective technique?’
As you might know, sex is more than a physical activity. It calls for the interaction of mind and body. The mind is where the emotional centre is and is geared up by qualities such as love, communication, selflessness, commitment, trust and above all else Christ. Love is the first gear for maximum sex which must be unconditional. Conditional love grows on appearance, opportunities, and materialism. Unconditional love takes the focus away from performance and more on the required mental elements.
Maximum sex flourishes in the institution of marriage, where the activity becomes dynamic by loving the person unconditionally; satisfying the person in spite of…Sex with different persons does not make it dynamic but different. So, stay within that holy institute to make your sex life dynamic and if your single and have not started…wait, sex will come when your married, a venture you will never regret when you get started.
