One Saturday night after watching my regular new movie on cable, I saw Chris Rock’s latest stand-up starting, so definitely I sunk myself back in the couch. One of the profound, and surprisingly serious, things he said was that “no man is one thing… for crime he is a conservative but for prostitution he is a liberal”. This along with other recent events in this country of ours got me thinking, what double standards we have in this society!
Double standard and leadership
From the book A Higher Standard of Leadership: Lessons from the Life of Gandhi by Keshavan Nair he states:
“We have been led to believe that there is one standard for private morality and conduct and another for public morality and conduct. We have come to accept that a lower moral standard is necessary to get things done in the real world of politics and business. This is the gospel of expediency-the double standard of conduct. Fueled by the idea of winning at all costs”
When leadership sets this example, the double standard permeates the organization, group, institution or family. As everyone in society is looking out for how the game is played and many will thus forsake their ideals to achieve success. Take my example when I was attending school.
At Cornwall College in second form I had art class; I observed that when given assignments the quality of ones work does not, to a large extent, determine the grade you get. It all came down to whose project the teacher had a close relation with, that is, the students who would go to him from the start of their assignment and keep the teacher involved day to day until the final product. I thought this was unfair and the teacher should stick to his principles and guidelines for grading- which by the way was so eloquently stated by him at the beginning of the year. I thought to myself even though identified I would never employ this tactic.
Let’s fast forward to UTECH; I’m in my final year, just outside the first class honors GPA and had Research Methodology as one of my outstanding courses.